Was I Wrong to Be Upset? My 70-Year-Old Mom Bought a $1,800 Dress Instead of Helping with Her Grandson’s College Fund

I never thought I’d question my mother’s priorities—until I saw the $1,800 receipt for a designer dress. She could’ve helped with my son’s college tuition. Instead, she bought something I saw as frivolous.

Growing up, Mom was the definition of sacrifice. She raised five kids on a modest income, wore the same coat for years, and never bought anything extravagant. So when I saw that dress—worn only to book club—I was stunned.

I brought it up gently over coffee. “Mom, that money could’ve helped Jason with school.”

She nodded slowly. “I know. I thought about that.”

“Then why?” I asked, frustrated.

“For seventy years, I’ve been more than just a mother,” she said, “but I never let myself be anything else. I’ve sacrificed without question. But now, I’m seventy. My kids are grown. I wanted one thing—just for me.”

Her words stopped me cold. I’d never considered how much she gave without asking for anything in return. I still wished she’d helped Jason. But I finally saw it clearly: she wasn’t being selfish.

She was simply remembering that she’s a person, too.

And after everything she gave us, maybe she had earned that small reminder.

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