I was a bit hesitant and weary when I met someone new after my disastrous divorce. But I only realized later that the person I should’ve had my guard up about was his mother. When she showed me her true colors, my mother took a stand and defended me.
After a painful divorce from my ex, Jason, and with my then three-year-old daughter, Meredith, clinging to me like a lifeline, I honestly believed the whole “happy family” thing just wasn’t in the cards for me. But then I met someone else and thought he was the one, until his mother said something that left us shocked.
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I am thirty-five now, but when my first marriage painfully ended a few years ago, I was exhausted and emotionally hollowed out by years of trying to hold together a union that had frayed past repair. By the time I left, all I wanted was peace. No drama. No false promises.
But then I met Todd. I met him at a friend’s Fourth of July BBQ. He offered me the last grilled corn, and when I gave it to Meredith instead, he just smiled and grabbed himself a hot dog.
That moment told me everything I needed to know about him! He was gentle. Unshaken. And he didn’t look at Meredith like she was some baggage I’d dragged into the party! He crouched down, asked her about her sparkly light-up sneakers, and actually listened!
