When my father-in-law, Frank, moved in after my mother-in-law was hospitalized, I thought it was temporary. However, his reliance on others quickly tested my patience and marriage.
Frank, unaccustomed to independence, began interrupting my work, demanding meals, and even hosting a poker night without consulting me. His old-fashioned attitudes and overstepping behavior reached a breaking point when I overheard him boasting about how women should serve men.
To restore balance, I drafted a household agreement outlining boundaries and responsibilities. Though Frank initially resisted, my husband, Brian, supported it. Over time, Frank adapted, and our home regained harmony, proving the importance of setting boundaries—even with family.
